Do you really want to be involved in a relationship with someone who does not appreciate you and puts you down ?
5Detach yourself from your ex-spouse
You are divorced. That means that your marriage is over. Some people who could not live in a loving relationship continue in a relationship of hate. You or your spouse, or both of you, have given up on your marriage. If you think you had no choice when it came to divorcing, ask yourself the following question
“Do you really want to be involved in a relationship with someone who does not appreciate you and puts you down ?”
The sooner you accept your separation, the sooner you’ll stop suffering. Some people believe wrongly that if they suffer enough, their ex will come back (and save them)! That is a painful fantasy to live with. Even if your ex came back, that would not be the foundation of a healthy relationship.
…here’s a solution: 2houses provides an opportunity for clear, full, and changing communication between ex-spouses that is free from all emotional charges, in the strict interest of their children.
Children must always feel that they are supervised by parents who are attentive to and aware of their scholastic and extracurricular activities, health, and so on.
2houses is an extraordinary way to enable parents to continue managing their joint child-rearing responsibilities. It offers precise management of expenses and a customisable parenting schedule that the children may also consult.
2houses helps parents to carry out their parental responsibilities serenely, in the absence of an emotionally charged context. That, in any event is how various family dispute specialists – lawyers, judges, psychologists, and teachers – see it.
Catherine Henry, lawyer and family mediator