Show your children that even when times are tough you and your children together will get through the rough patches without falling apart.
9Get your children to trust in you and feel secure
However often you see your children, make your dwelling a haven of peace and security. Your home must be a place where your children are respected and taken care of, a place where love and acceptance are shown and responsibility is taught.
It matters little if you feel that your ex offers too little security. The feelings of safety and security that you create will merely take on even more importance.