3Spare them the details
Telling your children how hard your life has become will only sow more confusion and put more weight on their frail shoulders. Giving them too much information can be a subtle (or not so subtle) way of asking them for help.
Rather than launching into lengthy explanations of why there is no money in your bank account, tackle the subject more simply : “We have to be smart about how we spend our money now.”
As an adult, you will have to find the best way to pay your bills, even if that means getting a job, taking out a loan, or asking someone to help you financially until you can make the necessary changes.
…here’s a solution: 2houses provides an opportunity for clear, full, and changing communication between ex-spouses that is free from all emotional charges, in the strict interest of their children.
Children must always feel that they are supervised by parents who are attentive to and aware of their scholastic and extracurricular activities, health, and so on.
2houses is an extraordinary way to enable parents to continue managing their joint child-rearing responsibilities. It offers precise management of expenses and a customisable parenting schedule that the children may also consult.
2houses helps parents to carry out their parental responsibilities serenely, in the absence of an emotionally charged context. That, in any event is how various family dispute specialists – lawyers, judges, psychologists, and teachers – see it.
Catherine Henry, lawyer and family mediator